A Trainee’s Guide to Rose Sexual Toy
On the surface of it, Rose Sexual Toy seem pretty simple – an extension of your hand that feels a little more like realistic sex, but not quite as big, bulky and hard to hide as a blow-up doll! However, there’s a wealth of new discoveries to be made inside those little tubes of specially formulated silicone… if you’ve recently purchased a Fleshlight adult toy or are thinking about it, here’s everything you’ll need to know about the Fleshlight.
Buying a Fleshlight Adult Toy
Many handheld pussy/anal sex simulators are called Fleshlights, although ‘Fleshlight’ is actually a particular brand. If you’re looking to buy one of these toys, have a browse through the men’s adult toy section generally, don’t just search by the name.
Look for toys made of Cyberskin or ‘realistic feel’ silicone – there is an amazing difference between these and standard old silicone!
You’ll also notice that some are make in a flashlight style, while others have a flat base to help you ‘mount’ the toy to a surface for hands-free operation (“Hey look, no hands!”). The mountable ones can cost a little more, but you can get the same effect from a handheld one by jamming it between your mattress and base, or between two couch cushions.
Prepping and Using Your Fleshlight Adult Toy
The proper prep can make a big different to how your Fleshlight adult toy feels. Here’s the usual MO:
- Fill the sink full of warm-hot water
- Remove the insert from the casing and sit it in the sink for 5 minutes
- Repeat if you like, or for thicker inserts
- DON’T use the microwave or boiling water
- Pop some wipes nearby to help with the cleanup. You’ll want to get the lube off your hands to get a good grip on your adult toy
- Slather the inside with water-based lube only; silicone-based lube will react with the adult toy and melt it.
Once you’re ready to go, try some different ideas like:
- Using it as an extension of your hand as you’d normally masturbate
- Jamming the Fleshlight between your mattress and the bed base for doggie-style simulation
- Alternatively, push it down between your couch cushions to hold it in place.
- Popping your adult toy into a shoe for unusual angles
- Simply hold it on a countertop or the side of a couch